Being a mentor is not a single path that we all have to follow in the same way. On the opposite, it is a personal journey in which we are free to have thousands of different experiences. It allows us to learn from others, to share our stories, to bond in trust, knowing that even though each of us is unique, we can support each other in the group, feel listened to and grow personally.
My time at Bridge by Mentor has opened doors to incredible people and unique experiences that I hold dear. On the one hand, there are the moments I have been able to share with other mentors, which have strengthened our bonds thanks to activities we enjoyed so much, like the ice skating or our long morning walks. On the other hand, there was the connection with those who placed their trust in us and decided to open up. This allowed us to do activities that were very valuable and gave us great satisfaction, demonstrating that mentoring is a two-way street where we can all gain something valuable.
Among my favorite activities, I would particularly highlight the language village I did at a high school in the city, where I was able to interact with the students. It was a great and enriching experience that reminded me of the importance of communication. I also have fond memories of the visit to the University of Bruges, where we were able to meet other mentors and do activities together.
This experience has had a profound impact on me, reinforcing my belief that human connection is the basis of learning. I have learned that what works best is authenticity and taking a moment to listen to those who have something to say. When both sides feel safe, magic happens. Flexibility and patience are key.
For anyone who wants to take the first step on this great journey, I suggest you go ahead and embark on the adventure without fear, but with an open mind. It’s not about having all the answers, but about being willing to learn from others. I recommend that you take advantage of all the activities that are offered, so that you can build bonds of trust. You will discover that the process of guiding others ends up becoming a valuable personal growth experience.
The true value of mentoring resides in its diversity. Although we each have our own culture and background, we are all different in our own way.