My name is Katerina Pencheva, and I am a mentor in the cultural mentoring program of “Big Brothers Big Sisters – Bulgaria,” where I am paired with Julie. I work as a primary school teacher in Karlovo and am currently pursuing a PhD in Social Policy and Social Work. Alongside my academic and professional path, I also volunteer whenever I can.
I see myself as a positive, organized, and ambitious person who values honesty, loyalty, and empathy. My motivation to join the mentoring program came from the idea that these relationships can last a lifetime—and through my experience with Julie, I truly believe this is possible. What we built goes beyond a formal program. It feels natural, meaningful, and lasting.
This experience has deeply impacted me. Despite my background as a teacher, mentoring showed me a different kind of connection—one based not on structure or authority, but on mutual trust and genuine care. It brought me back to my own childhood and reminded me how important it is to create space where a child feels seen and heard. I realized that mentoring is not about guiding from above, but about walking side by side.
One of the key things I learned is how important compatibility and shared interests are. Julie and I connected easily because we both enjoy similar activities—creative workshops, walks, conversations, and exploring bookstores. These shared moments made our time together feel effortless and authentic. I also learned that consistency and emotional presence matter more than complex plans. What works best is simply being there, being real, and allowing the relationship to grow naturally. On the other hand, distance or long breaks between meetings can be challenging, as they make you realize how much the connection matters.
For those who want to begin their mentoring journey, my advice is simple—be open, patient, and genuine. Do not focus on being perfect or always having the best ideas. Focus on building trust. Listen, share, and allow the relationship to develop at its own pace. Small, meaningful moments often have the biggest impact.
Mentoring is not just about supporting someone else—it transforms you as well. It teaches you to connect more deeply, to appreciate the present, and to value human relationships in a new way. In the end, it is not just time spent—it is a bond created.